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Women speak about honouring self

4/4/2016

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Over dinner at the last full moon, I asked twenty-five strong, inspiring, successful women - women who are already in action making a difference for their community and world - how they'd define 'honouring self'. They reflected individually, then shared with those around them. The responses were powerful, moving and very much from the heart. 

How would you define 'honouring self'?

​Taking time to be grounded is doing myself honour.
Taking time to make time for myself. Creating space for me. ​That's what for me is honouring self.
​Being in flow. Having more of the moments when I don't really have a sense of anything else - except what I'm doing.
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Time for self. Pampering. Being true to self. 
Being grounded. Being in the moment.

Where don't we honour self?

It's in the way we talk to ourselves.
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​In how we sustain the practice of honouring the self.  Sometimes we do things for ourselves, but we don't think to sustain that practice in terms of honouring ourselves. 

Not being true to our own individual needs. For some that is stopping work, for some it is finding that work-life balance. For someone else, it is launching a business. For me, I'd like to find a space to let my work light shine. I'd like to really use the talents I've got.
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What area would you most like to transform?

Being true to my own needs. Letting my light shine. ​

What would transformation look like?

Being grounded. Centreing self. Mindfulness. Sustainability. Keeping the momentum going. Believing self. Trusting self. Being kind to self. ​Gentle self talk. Service to others. Letting go. Decluttering. Saying no. Not-colouring.​ 

This last point - not-colouring - was received with much laughter and it reminded us that what might be honouring self for one woman may be totally the opposite for another. For some, making space for self may include colouring in...for others, honouring self means taking an active stance to hang out with your favourite friends, and not be colouring!!​

Is there anything you want to take on doing / being over this next month?

  • Be more positive.
  • Find myself a voice coach. 
  • Remember the depth!
  • Diet and exercise. 
  • Keep powering on! Speaking up for myself. 
  • Movement in my digestive system. ​
  • Slow down, make space for serendipitous happenings.​
  • ​To get back on track losing weight, and stay on track.
  • Honour myself - ie make time to honour.​
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  • ​Trust my intuition, listen to my body, give myself time and go with the flow of what's good for me in that moment, is honouring myself in a holistic way - instead of stressing that I'm not keeping up with my task list!
  • Pay my bills. Turn my life around. Address challenges.
  • Lose the guilt and responsibility for others' behaviours over which I have no control. Letting go of a lot that doesn't serve me. ​​
  • ​For the next month I will be travelling to NZ and WA to spend time and support family. That is honouring self, for me.

Extra delights

Women Howling at the Moon is the gathering where these conversations coalesce and fabulous new possibilities are generated. And what's more, the benefits are not only for those who actually attend!
One woman's daughter has attended a few recent Women Howling at the Moon evenings. She asked her mum to let the gathering of women know that she too is courageously disrupting at work, creating the space for management to consider betters of way to do things. Whoooee, go grrrrl!! You rock!

​​PLUS, participants apparently scored nineteen years' worth of good value for attending this March full moon event - which also happened to be Women Howling at the Moon's third birthday :-). According to some moon-followers, the changes we made that night are meant to have ramifications for the next nineteen years! Well, what a brilliant night to have been identifying how we will each be honouring self! Talk about good value, hehe. 
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What women are saying they have loved/gained from Women Howling at the Moon ...


  • ​A sense of perspective and gratitude.
  • Meeting like minded women.
  • A better sense of "self".
  • Connection with other women on a journey of discovery.
  • Warmth, caring, respect, humour, ditching the small talk and getting right down to what matters. 
  • Being with positive passionate women. - Denise Bolland, empowers women to find their voice and speak their truth. 
  • Non-judgemental, always interesting, beautiful women. (Penny Robertson, CPTSD forum coordinator / Dog-sitting)
  • I tend to stay on the surface of life like a skimming stone because I can. I love Women Howling at the Moon because it forces me into some depth. (Margot Morton, Clinical Educator)
  • The companionship and that everyone felt at ease and free to share. (Paula Cotter, admin officer and promoter of modern products)
  • Meeting new people. Feeling a connection / a vibration with the women I meet. (Robyn Cooney, Educator)
  • I leave this evening with an extra bounce in my step. Hearing and sharing such intimate and empowering stories. Cheering each other on ... wherever we may be on our current path. (Wendy Kropf, new business owner).​

​Below, from left, Margot Morton, a health educator and regular Women Howling at the Moon attendee shares new possibilities for honouring self with Jo Knights (SoulCollage facilitator and owner of Inner Artist Creativity) , Julie Stevens (creative guru at Lovely Lines Chalk Art) and new business woman Wendy Kropf.
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​Are you ready for some amazing connections with amazing women?

If you'd like to be part of this gathering, the next event is on Friday 22 April. The topic is We Women of Courage.

​Last time we talked about honouring yourselves. THIS time we are talking about courage - because we already know you have courage. AND you have great ideas. AND things stop you, right? So we'll:

  • Identify what courage is for you and how courageous women truly are.
  • Identify what stops you from stepping into your courage.
  • Share our visions of a better world for all through using our courage.
  • Learn what it means to step into your courage.
  • Have a sisterhood being a stand for you to access your courage when you need it.

If you'd like to be part of this, book and pay by 20 April at the very latest.  And to catch the Early Bird rate, and be in the draw for a free dessert of your choice - make sure you book by 13 April.

I look forward to seeing you!
To Your Magnificence.
​With love
Chris 

3 Comments
Elina Juusola link
7/4/2016 10:10:50 am

Great to get to know what you did. Thanks fro sharing. See you next full Moon

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Diana Moore
8/4/2016 04:37:42 am

What wonderful feedback! I must put something on the Facebook site. I have extended my stay in NZ to 20th as my sister's recovery is taking longer than hoped. She has been transferred to a rehab ward where she will get more physio and the medical staff are a lot more thorough and compassionate. I have been able to be present at their assessments and have had a good input (as a nurse and much more assertive person than my sister, especially now that she has been in so much pain). I have spoken up about my disapproval of the pain management in the orthopaedic ward and will be writing some strong feedback to Auckland Hospital on Jenny"s discharge. How's that for courage!!! I am keeping family and her friends updated on progress and am making the health care team very aware of the home situation, including difficult access, by way of video, so that is factored into discharge planning. I have had some beach walks and enjoy my trips by ferry each day from Waiheke Island to Auckland City, a trip of about 40 minutes, taking in the Hauraki gulf and Auckland Harbour. It is the territory of my childhood and youth, so it is very familiar and enjoyable. I have also had some retail therapy. I have been able to spend some time with extended family and they are very supportive. I hope I may be able to get to the gathering on 22nd, but will have to work, so depends on swapping to an early shift. That's all for now. Kindest regards Diana

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Chris Henderson
14/4/2016 04:05:53 pm

Diana, thank you for the feedback and update. That is so good you are there. Glad you are having some time for yourself too. Warmly. Chris

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